Why We Crave More When We Have Enough
this blog explores the paradox of human desire. It delves into the question of why, even amidst achievements, we chase shadows of "more." Weaving personal anecdotes with philosophical insights, it examines the subtle influences of social comparison, the deceptive hunger of FOMO, and the unfulfilled yearnings of the heart. This introspective journey encourages readers to question their pursuits, seek the wellspring of meaning within, and discover true fulfillment beyond the mirage of material abundance.
PERSONAL REFLECTION
4/2/20243 min read
We crave for more because the human heart is a bottomless pit of desires. I remember the days of a humble peso, stretches it thin as a spider's web, yet somehow finding sustenance. Now, with pockets full of coins, I, sadly, find yourself chasing shadows, the ghost of a need that won't be sated. Why is this? Is it a flaw woven into the fabric of our being, this insatiable hunger for more? Thus, it makes me ask, why we crave for more when we have enough.
And again, I'd say, we crave for more because the human heart is a bottomless pit of desires.
Perhaps, we adapt, like desert plants, to the scarcity we knew. The peso, once a struggle, becomes the new baseline, a standard, and then, out of nowhere (or not, really) the thirst for more blooms anew. It's a cruel trick, this hedonic treadmill, forever chasing a mirage of satisfaction.
But the answer, like a hidden spring, lies deeper. We are social creatures, forever comparing our sun-baked plots to the lush gardens of others. The carefully curated feeds, whispers of envy in gilded cages, they fuel the fires of inadequacy. We fear missing out, even when the "out" is a carefully constructed illusion.
Why we crave for more when we have enough - sometimes, the hunger stems not from external forces, but from within. The seeds of low self-esteem, the thorny vines of perfectionism, they choke the joy from our lives and breed a gnawing discontentment. We want what others have thinking it will be satisfy us; but, to our utmost surprise, yet a surprise we do not show, we are still not satisfied.
Why we crave for more when we have enough?
These are battles best fought not alone, but with the help of a trusted guide, a therapist who can help us untangle the roots of our dissatisfaction and cultivate self-compassion.
So, how do we break free from this cycle? The answer, like a whispered truth, is simple yet profound. Look inwards. Ask yourself: are these desires truly mine, or echoes of what others expect?
Find the wellspring of gratitude, appreciate the rain that has already fallen on your fields. Define your "enough," not in the eyes of others, but in the quiet corners of your own heart.
Consumption, like a seductive siren, beckons us with empty promises. Be mindful, of what you chase. Does it nourish the soul, or merely feed the flames of fleeting pleasure?
Remember, true fulfillment lies not in the accumulation of things, but in the richness of experiences, the depth of connections, and the alignment of your life with your deepest values.
The journey is just as important as the destination, so savor it, reflect on it, and don't let the hunger for more blind you to the banquet already laid before you. For the true feast, lies in the nourishment of the heart.
But, despite everything that has been said, you may realize that you are already aware of this. Yet, somehow, you cannot seem to shake the feeling that these answers are still lacking and oh, yes, they are.
Why we crave when we have enough? Because nothing in this world will ever satisfy us. Ever. If nothing ever satisfies us in this world, it is a sign that we are meant for heaven. For in there, everything will have been satisfied and there you will say: "I won't crave because I have more than enough."
Jesus is Lord.
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